All too often you make the mistake of complimenting someones obvious physical good looks. Stand out and compliment their style, their swagger, their shoes, earrings, jacket or whatever really gave you a positive first impression. Attractive men and women are generally complimented by their looks, boring! It’s easy to tell a pretty girl, she’s pretty. Do you know how annoying it is for a hot girl to have to read 100+ messages that all say the same thing. “You’re hot.” That’s the fastest way to be viewed as shallow and unoriginal.